"Why is anyone a friend?"

….was the question…

She rambles….
A friendship is a 'relationship' - relationships are formed through shared experiences & communication The more sharing ... stronger the bond

It's a need for socialisation - humans are social animals that seek community , kinship & companionship
Why ? Because deep down we want to be loved & give love - that makes us most content (love is not expectations but considers human values & ethics)

Friendship or any relationship is vibrations at the similiar frequency... the law of attraction brings us together but then what? Where do we go from here ?
We exchange , share , love ... we grow ... we stay &…. we part . It seems quite natural & organic - this coming together & parting (or staying if the vibrations resonate - there is harmony … music & oneness)

 Is friendship or any relationship based on exclusivity or inclusivity ....
Why are you my friend ? Can we all be friends ? Must we choose ? 

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